Foreplay - Understanding Each Other
By Wicked Temptress

Foreplay - Understanding Each Other

Understanding each other in any sort of relationship is important. How we do that is between us as a couple. Couples who enjoy great sex have a higher quality of life… It has been written that if you enjoy foreplay and sex then you will experience less depression, which triggers the stress within our lives… So with that in mind, sex is best and foreplay is beneficial to help us stay healthy and happy…

Having a mind blowing orgasm is one thing, it gets the heart pumping and the blood flowing, but foreplay can have the same affect as it gets the adrenalin rushing through our bodies, our hearts beat fast as we anticipate what will happen next…. Foreplay is simply fantastic if you know and understand your partner… Foreplay is also beneficial if you or your partner are experiencing a loss of libido or one of you has suddenly lost that sexual urge, due to a medical condition or stress….

Understanding your partner comes first. You need to understand how they are feeling because of their ability to enjoy sex and to understand why you or your partner cannot give you sexual gratification. This is where foreplay comes in very handy indeed….

Talking softly to each other, touching, caressing and being together is wonderful… Guys I know this can be daunting at first but jumping that first hurdle is the hardest and once cleared, you can begin to enjoy each other and it will feel to good to stop. What you both need to do is give your selves permission to enjoy frequent touching, intimate foreplay, teasing and if in the end you are desperate to for wild passionate sex… then go for it, but don’t rush the beginning of something so fantastic as foreplay….

With both of you enjoying the sensual sensations of foreplay you will find the intimacies you require and deserve are within reach. Passion is yours for a lifetime and it’s a gift that just keeps giving. For those of you who are trying to reclaim your sex life, follow through with these few steps to understand your partner and for them to understand you… Foreplay is a must for a lot of people and it doesn’t matter how it happens as long as it flows freely and you understand and care about each other…

Take one step at a time and don’t rush…
 

Create a space in your life for passion: Begin with intention. Set aside just 15 minutes a day and use this time to focus on sexuality. Read erotica. Talk with a friend about your love life, write a note to your partner, rent a video or borrow a hot movie from your friends. Take a trip to your local adult store or browse online and shop for sexy lingerie… do whatever it takes to get your juices flowing. Use this time to get in touch with your inner self and explore your sensuality… Don’t dally - Begin Today!!

Reopen channels of Communication: Take the time, right now - to talk with your partner. Listen as to each other, listen to the needs of your partner and ensure she knows what you want her to do to her. If she wants you to tease her with feathers…. Listen to her… or if you want her to tease your rosebud… then let her know… Communication is a must between both parties.

 

Take a look inside: If one of you feels that its too hard to say what like or would like to try, write it down. Sometimes reading and writing about your feelings or the erotica that you would love to bestowed on your bodies will help with foreplay… In fact in a sense it is foreplay. Its erotic, its sensual and when you both read what the other has written, I know your heart will skip a beat when it comes to knowing the other’s secret desires…

Never look at your partner in shock if its something that you’d never ever contemplated, cause trying something new will lead to knew found pleasures for both of you…

Even if it has been years since you have felt the magic in the bedroom, it is easier to rekindle those erotic feelings that you are missing out on than you can imagine. Please try it once more for your own self. Desire does not need to die because of our busy schedules, children etc … the bottom line is - It’s never too late to try foreplay to help rekindle that fire within!!